
Counseling Corner 1/16
Dear Brain and Steele,
My name is Macie and my husband Max and I got married last month. 250 people attended our wedding - and one of those was my ex-boyfriend of 4 years. He and I had a great relationship throughout our 20s. The breakup was even good. It was mutual - I wanted to get married and start a family - he did not. We remained friends and even though he moved across the country - we invited him and both Max and I thought it was great to see him.
The next morning, as Max and I were sitting down to our first breakfast as husband and wife - I got a text from Michael - who I assumed was on his way to the airport for an early flight. All the text said was, "DID I JUST MAKE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE?"
I haven't responded yet. What do I do?
Macie
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