You Want Me to Rub What? Counseling Corner
Brain and Steele,
I’ve been dating a great girl for about 2 months now. She’s romantic, passionate, and we have great chemistry together. But I’m not going to lie. There is something about her that I find very unbecoming.
She loves to have her feet rubbed. Not just after a day’s work, which I can completely understand. But during any romantic interlude, she loves to have her feet grabbed, fondled and squeezed. She demands I do it. Here’s the thing, her feet aren’t misshapen, ugly or smelly. By all accounts, they are attractive feet. But I…can’t….stand….feet. I hate them. They disgust me. And to have to touch hers every time we get romantic, well, it’s gotten to be almost more than I can handle. The thought of running my fingers through her toes, it almost makes me want to avoid any possible romantic, physical situation.
What am I supposed to do? I’m honestly surprised she hasn’t picked up on my disgust for her feet yet. But I’m afraid if I tell her it will end our relationship. Do any other guys out there have to put up with things like this for the sake of a relationship? Does it get easier? Why can’t she just always wear socks! Any help would be great.
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