When the garter goes in the air, most men do exactly what the majority of the guys in this video do.  Nothing.  Or, they back up.  Guys don't ever want to appear desperate.  Correct me if I'm wrong, but doesn't the guy who tramples the little boy in the video look just a tad desperate?  Safe to say he's even more embarrassed.  But hey, he won!  Or did he?  I'm guessing the women at the reception found him a whole lot less desirable after this...